Mevlana\u2019n\u0131n “Ya oldu\u011fun gibi g\u00f6r\u00fcn ya g\u00f6r\u00fcnd\u00fc\u011f\u00fcn gibi ol” ne g\u00fczel de bir s\u00f6z. Bu s\u00f6z, sadece bir d\u00fcr\u00fcstl\u00fck \u00e7a\u011fr\u0131s\u0131 de\u011fil; insan\u0131n i\u00e7 d\u00fcnyas\u0131 ile d\u0131\u015f d\u00fcnyaya sundu\u011fu vitrin aras\u0131ndaki u\u00e7urumu anlat\u0131yor. Di\u011fer bir ifadeyle, samimiyetin ve i\u00e7tenli\u011fin de\u011ferini anlat\u0131yor. \u0130nsanlar\u0131 tan\u0131d\u0131k\u00e7a bu s\u00f6z\u00fcn anlam\u0131 daha iyi anla\u015f\u0131l\u0131yor.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
\u0130nsan, \u00e7o\u011fu zaman toplumsal onay mekanizmalar\u0131n\u0131n etkisiyle kendine yapay kimlikler in\u015fa eder. Be\u011fenilme arzusu, d\u0131\u015flanma korkusu veya stat\u00fc kayg\u0131s\u0131 bizi “olmad\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z biri” gibi davranmaya iter veya birilerini a\u015fa\u011f\u0131ya \u00e7ekerek olmad\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z gibi g\u00f6r\u00fcnmeye \u00e7eker.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
“Oldu\u011fun gibi g\u00f6r\u00fcnmek”, i\u00e7indeki f\u0131rt\u0131nay\u0131 veya huzuru saklamadan, maskelerin ard\u0131na s\u0131\u011f\u0131nmadan var olabilme cesaretidir. Ki\u015finin eksiklerini, fazlal\u0131klar\u0131n\u0131 ve en yal\u0131n halini kabullenmesidir. “G\u00f6r\u00fcnd\u00fc\u011f\u00fcn gibi olmak” ise d\u0131\u015far\u0131ya verdi\u011fin s\u00f6z\u00fcn, sergiledi\u011fin tavr\u0131n i\u00e7 d\u00fcnyanda bir kar\u015f\u0131l\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131n olmas\u0131d\u0131r. Bu s\u00f6z, ayn\u0131 zamanda maskesiz ya\u015fam\u0131 ve samimiyeti ifade eder.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Sonu\u00e7 olarak, samimiyet ve i\u00e7tenlik insan\u0131n kendi ger\u00e7e\u011fine sad\u0131k kalmas\u0131d\u0131r. Ya\u015fam yolculu\u011funda en b\u00fcy\u00fck ba\u015far\u0131, aynaya bakt\u0131\u011f\u0131nda g\u00f6rd\u00fc\u011f\u00fcn ki\u015fiyle insanlar\u0131n tan\u0131d\u0131\u011f\u0131 ki\u015finin ayn\u0131 olmas\u0131d\u0131r. \u0130yi insan olman\u0131n temeli, insan\u0131n i\u00e7inin ve d\u0131\u015f\u0131n\u0131n bir olmas\u0131d\u0131r. Bu tutarl\u0131l\u0131k, ki\u015fiye hem \u00f6zg\u00fcven hem de huzur kazand\u0131r\u0131r. Huzurunuz bol olsun!<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
Mevlana\u2019n\u0131n “Ya oldu\u011fun gibi g\u00f6r\u00fcn ya g\u00f6r\u00fcnd\u00fc\u011f\u00fcn gibi ol” ne g\u00fczel de bir s\u00f6z. Bu s\u00f6z, sadece bir d\u00fcr\u00fcstl\u00fck \u00e7a\u011fr\u0131s\u0131 de\u011fil; insan\u0131n i\u00e7 d\u00fcnyas\u0131 ile d\u0131\u015f d\u00fcnyaya sundu\u011fu vitrin aras\u0131ndaki u\u00e7urumu anlat\u0131yor. Di\u011fer bir ifadeyle, samimiyetin ve i\u00e7tenli\u011fin de\u011ferini anlat\u0131yor. \u0130nsanlar\u0131 tan\u0131d\u0131k\u00e7a bu s\u00f6z\u00fcn anlam\u0131 daha iyi anla\u015f\u0131l\u0131yor. \u0130nsan, \u00e7o\u011fu zaman toplumsal onay mekanizmalar\u0131n\u0131n etkisiyle […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":185,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":true,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"saved_in_kubio":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[14],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-1","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-sosyal"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.erdalbalaban.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.erdalbalaban.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.erdalbalaban.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.erdalbalaban.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.erdalbalaban.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=1"}],"version-history":[{"count":3,"href":"https:\/\/www.erdalbalaban.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":183,"href":"https:\/\/www.erdalbalaban.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1\/revisions\/183"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.erdalbalaban.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/185"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.erdalbalaban.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=1"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.erdalbalaban.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=1"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.erdalbalaban.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=1"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}