Hayat\u0131 korta, tenisi de hayat\u0131n ta kendisine benzetirim. Zira her ikisinde de g\u00f6zya\u015flar\u0131 kadar tuzlu h\u00fcz\u00fcnler, s\u0131zlatan ac\u0131lar ve g\u00f6\u011fs\u00fcm\u00fcz\u00fc dolduran saf sevin\u00e7ler i\u00e7 i\u00e7e ya\u015fan\u0131r.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Teniste “m\u00fckemmeliyet” bir kuruntu; oysa orada derin bir hissetme sanat\u0131, o an\u0131n, topun ve raketin keyfini \u00e7\u0131karma \u015f\u00f6leni vard\u0131r. Skor tabelas\u0131 ne derse desin, o oyunda buldu\u011funuz anlam, sizi galip k\u0131lar. Amac\u0131n\u0131z sadece o sonu\u00e7 odakl\u0131 galibiyetse, bilin ki tenis sizi yoldan \u00e7\u0131kar\u0131r, ruhunuzu bozar, ne sizin ne de kar\u015f\u0131n\u0131zdakinin keyfinden eser b\u0131rak\u0131r. O an, bir k\u00e2busa d\u00f6n\u00fc\u015f\u00fcr.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
T\u0131pk\u0131 hayatta oldu\u011fu gibi, sar\u0131 top her zaman istedi\u011finiz a\u00e7\u0131yla, arzulad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131z h\u0131zda gelmeyebilir. Vuru\u015flar\u0131n\u0131z\u0131n sonu\u00e7lar\u0131, beklentilerinizin \u00e7ok uza\u011f\u0131nda kalabilir. Hayat da \u00f6yle de\u011fil mi? Her \u015feyin g\u00f6nl\u00fcm\u00fczce olmas\u0131 imk\u00e2ns\u0131zd\u0131r. Beklentilerimiz kar\u015f\u0131lanmad\u0131\u011f\u0131nda, o an\u0131 kabullenmek gerekir. B\u0131rak\u0131n bu durum sizi y\u0131kmas\u0131n, aksine, bir sonraki puan i\u00e7in size g\u00fc\u00e7 versin. Kald\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131z yerden, daha g\u00fc\u00e7l\u00fc bir nefesle devam edin.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
E\u011fer as\u0131l arzunuz rakibiniz \u00fczerinde bir bask\u0131 kurmaksa, topun nereden geldi\u011fine tak\u0131lmay\u0131n; o topun “nereden gelemeyece\u011fini” anlamaya \u00e7al\u0131\u015f\u0131n. Bu, kortun ve hayat\u0131n en derin s\u0131rr\u0131d\u0131r.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Hayat\u0131n sizi incitmesini, k\u0131rmas\u0131n\u0131 istemiyorsan\u0131z, kalbinizin sesini dinleyerek yapmak istedi\u011finizi en iyi \u015fekilde yap\u0131n. Kendinizi s\u00fcrekli geli\u015ftirin. Unutmay\u0131n: Hayata teslim olmay\u0131n, zorluklardan (rakibinizden) korkmay\u0131n, omuzlar\u0131n\u0131z (raketiniz) d\u00fc\u015fmeden, m\u00fccadeleden asla vazge\u00e7meyin!<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Tenis, kurallar\u0131 olsa da kat\u0131 bir kader (determinizm) de\u011fildir; o, s\u00fcrekli de\u011fi\u015fen, canl\u0131 bir ak\u0131\u015ft\u0131r. Ancak, pusulas\u0131 olmayan gemiler gibi, hedefsizseniz, kaybetmeye ve daha \u00e7ok \u00fcz\u00fclmeye mahk\u00fbmsunuz demektir.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Gelin, hayat\u0131 sadece o sonuca odaklanm\u0131\u015f de\u011fil, bir hedef odakl\u0131 ya\u015fam sanat\u0131na \u00e7evirelim. Tenisi de sadece galibiyete de\u011fil, o anki s\u00fcrece odaklanarak oynayal\u0131m.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Hayat\u0131n ve tenisin her nefesinde, kalpten keyif al\u0131n ve daima sa\u011fl\u0131kl\u0131 kal\u0131n.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
M. Erdal Balaban<\/p>\n\n\n\n
1 Kas\u0131m 2025<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
Hayat\u0131 korta, tenisi de hayat\u0131n ta kendisine benzetirim. Zira her ikisinde de g\u00f6zya\u015flar\u0131 kadar tuzlu h\u00fcz\u00fcnler, s\u0131zlatan ac\u0131lar ve g\u00f6\u011fs\u00fcm\u00fcz\u00fc dolduran saf sevin\u00e7ler i\u00e7 i\u00e7e ya\u015fan\u0131r. Teniste “m\u00fckemmeliyet” bir kuruntu; oysa orada derin bir hissetme sanat\u0131, o an\u0131n, topun ve raketin keyfini \u00e7\u0131karma \u015f\u00f6leni vard\u0131r. Skor tabelas\u0131 ne derse desin, o oyunda buldu\u011funuz anlam, sizi […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":205,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"saved_in_kubio":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[15],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-204","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-spor"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.erdalbalaban.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/204","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.erdalbalaban.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.erdalbalaban.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.erdalbalaban.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.erdalbalaban.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=204"}],"version-history":[{"count":3,"href":"https:\/\/www.erdalbalaban.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/204\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":208,"href":"https:\/\/www.erdalbalaban.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/204\/revisions\/208"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.erdalbalaban.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/205"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.erdalbalaban.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=204"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.erdalbalaban.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=204"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.erdalbalaban.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=204"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}